Worthy City With A Pleasantly Quirky Culture

The Short Version: Asheville, North Carolina is an ideal getaway for couples who love both the outdoors and the city. In Asheville, you don’t have to choose. With expansive undeveloped wilderness in the Blue Ridge Mountains, couples can find plenty of opportunity for hiking, biking, and even zip lining. Only a few miles away, in […]

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Why Your Match Hasnt Responded

Before you venture out alone into the vast world of cyber dating, I wouldn’t feel good about myself if I didn’t introduce you to someone I like to call “Ghost Guy.” This is the maddening character who doesn’t respond to your flirts, messages, nudges and other methods of online dating protocol. Or worse, you begin […]

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Why Some Men Need Sex Before Commitment

Clearly we are in a high-supply sexual economy where men can attempt to obtain sex without a promise to share anything past their germs and where women are exposing their bloodstreams and eggs to men whom they don’t trust enough to water their plants while they are out of town. But why do some men […]

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Why The Best Mr. Right Might Actually BeYourself

In order to date other people happily and courageously, I believe we need to start by dating ourselves. All too often we approach dating as some kind of giant jigsaw puzzle for jagged hearts. We believe all we need to do to feel happy and heal past hurts is to meet our perfect fit – […]

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Why Some Women Dont Want To Marry

There’s a reason why Facebook put “It’s Complicated’ as a relationship status. Relationships are darn complicated! Not so long ago, marriage was a great option for women. It gave women a provider and a safe nest to raise kids. It also provided laundry, cooking, child-related labor and all the busy work of traditional gender roles. […]

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Women 3x More Likely To Delay Sex With New Partners

This is an exclusive study conducted by DatingAdvice.com, which surveyed respondents over the course of three weeks to reflect an accurate representation of the U.S. population. Some people are quick to jump into bed with a new partner, while others insist on getting to know someone before taking that next step. In our latest study, […]

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Why She Hasnt Called

In the world of dating, sometimes we meet someone we click with immediately. We feel a passion so intense that we never want it to fade. Other times, we find ourselves asking one of the most perplexing questions ever posed by mankind: “Why didn’t they call?” When Alexander Graham Bell invented the telephone, he changed […]

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Why Taking Risks In Love Is Worth It

We’ve all heard stories of people doing almost anything for love. From billboards or personal ads, to romantic love songs or YouTube videos with professions of love, some might consider these grand acts extreme, desperate or absolutely brilliant. Regardless of your interpretation and if you would ever consider partaking in any of the above examples, […]

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Why Successful Men Struggle To Find A Good Relationship

It seems like those who are the most successful should have the easiest time attracting romantic relationships, but that’s not always the case. For example, when I was younger, I worked as a massage therapist. During that time, I constantly had the thought, “Of course, men will want to date me. Who wouldn’t want to […]

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Why Midlife Singles Need More Friends

If you’re a senior single in your 50s, in addition to your desire for a new life mate, you want to add more new friends to your circle. If you’re single in your 50s, that means you no longer have a spouse to take you to and from a doctor’s appointment when you need it. […]

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Why Men Wont Tell You They Arent Interested

If he’s a man, he’s capable of lying to you. It doesn’t matter if he is a sweet and sensitive David Archuletta-type or dangerous and confident like Snoop Dogg. The reasons may differ — some want to spare your feelings, while others want to live a double life. Sometimes it may come as a shock […]

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Why Is This Month Different From Others For Online Daters

My phone is ringing non-stop and I have been busy working with singles to create the perfect 2014 online dating profiles. The good news is that both terrific men and women are hoping to connect this winter. What’s really happening online in January? Dating sites such as JDate reported a 10 percent increase in mobile […]

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Why You Should Date Like A Manning

All week leading up to the Patriots game, we heard about Peyton Manning’s legacy. Will he win the game, and if he loses to the Patriots, how would that change his legacy? We’re talking about one of the greatest quarterbacks to ever grace the field! We’re talking about a guy with 55 touchdown passes. A […]

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Womens Tears Decrease Sexual Arousal In Men

A woman crying is, for many men, something of a turn-off. But does this response come about due to a chemical reaction? New research is suggesting our tear ducts may be sending out signals to the opposite sex, whether we realize it or not. To test this, male volunteers were asked to sniff the “emotional […]

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Why Searching For Miss Right Keeps You From Finding Love

Guys all have checklists for their ideal woman, but, more often than not, it can actually keep us from finding true love. After all, a girl with Olivia Wilde’s face, Salma Hayek’s breasts, and Gisele Bundchen’s legs doesn’t come along very often. Throw in Anne Hathaway’s girl-next-door, down-to-earth charm, Kate Hudson’s bubbly personality, Megan Fox’s […]

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Why Stressed Men Prefer Fleshy Women

Dr. Wendy Walsh was recently on Fox News discussing why stressed men find heavier women more attractive, which was picked up by The Daily Show with Jon Stewart in the Moment of Zen segment. To learn where Wendy was coming from, here is a great article with more information. Wondering if model-thin is the only […]

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Why Instant Chemistry Isnt That Important

Chemistry is important. You want to feel attraction for the lesbian you’re dating. The truth is it’s not always going to show up immediately. The other truth is it shouldn’t be the leading factor for dating a woman. Often when you first realize you are lesbian, it’s because a woman showed up and you found […]

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