Why People Date Outside Their League

As humans, we have evolved to compete. Indeed, we compete for everything from jobs to parking spots. But perhaps the biggest competition we face is in the race for the best mate. Of course, the “best” mate means different things to each gender. Men tend to prefer youth and beauty while women are attracted to […]

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Why Im Defending People Who Have Anal Sex (Like Me!)

Recently I came across an article posted on the UrbanDater written by a woman who just doesn’t believe women can actually enjoy anal sex. She even insinuates that articles written in praise of the amazing orgasms women can sometimes experience from anal penetration may actually be written by men propagating a falsehood in the hopes […]

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Why I Stay Home On Saturday Nights

Think about that for a second: Is being alone on a Saturday night really that bad? Actually, it’s really one of my favorite nights, and I am going to explain why. The typical Saturday night is full of hope and wonderment. But it’s really full of chasing the night. Saturday night is the end of […]

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Why Your Profile Is Scaring Good Men Away

My male clients seem to always have a universal question: “Why are women’s profiles so mean?” “They vent about all their past problems with men. They seem like they don’t even like men. They outline a list of requirements you must meet to contact them, so I don’t contact them.” – Says a nice, good […]

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Who Should Pick Up The Tab

Who should pay for the date in the 21st century? You might think the answer would get easier and more established as civilization forges into the future but no. It used to be skirts were all long or all short, pink was “in” or pink was “out,” paisley suits were trendy or they were hideous. […]

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Why Your Girlfriend Doesnt Want To Meet Your Friends

The world is full of naturally shy people. Sometimes it’s our job to cater to their needs and aid them in boosting their confidence, especially if you happen to be dating a shy person. It’s not uncommon for those without confidence to dislike meeting new people, and if these new people happen to be your […]

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Who Goes On A First Online Date On Valentines Day

Finding a new relationship can be challenging, but the digital landscape has never been easier. Online dating has morphed into social dating, where singles are also connecting and reconnecting on Facebook and flirting on Twitter. In the online dating world, your entire bucket needs to be full if you want to be successful with the […]

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Women Prefer Men With Wider Faces For Short

Looks are only skin deep, but a wider face length may just carry an advantage. New research published in the journal Psychological Science found women prefer men with a wider face when choosing a short-term mate. The results back up previous findings that the physical appearance of a potential mate is more important than some […]

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Women Have More Orgasms With Masculine, Dominant Men

A new study is attempting to understand how common, how frequent and under what circumstances women have orgasms. Appearing in the latest edition of Evolution and Human Behavior, women with dominant or masculine men as partners were found to have a greater frequency of orgasms. Conducted at the University of Pennsylvania, the study involved surveying […]

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Why Hasnt He Proposed

I know the deal. You’ve found a great guy. You’ve gone through all the steps and stages to become exclusive boyfriend and girlfriend. Your parents have met. Your friends love him. And you’ve told each other over and over you love each other. So, why hasn’t he proposed? Well, the answer comes down to four […]

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Would You Rather Date Like Jenny Or Melissa McCarthy

Illinois natives and first cousins Jenny and Melissa McCarthy (yes, they are cousins!) entered Hollywood from opposite sides of the spectrum. Jenny started out by becoming a famous Playboy model and hosting the TV game show “Singled Out” on MTV. Melissa was an unknown actress until her big break came as a brusque and overzealous […]

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Why You Should Date Him (Not His Potential)

Every woman will date or has dated a guy for his potential (myself included). I remember dating guys who were 70 percent of my ideal, hoping the 30 percent would fall into place. When the 30 percent didn’t transpire, I was let down. Here’s what I learned: Dating a guy for his potential led me […]

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Why Hes Just Not That Into You

At one point or another, every woman has found herself both attracted to a man and unsure if that man was interested in her, too. This is a tough position to be in, especially since going on dates and hooking up won’t necessarily offer clarity on what, exactly, a man feels about you. Plenty of […]

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Why Do People Online Date” (7 Most Common Reasons)

I’ve never been a fan of bungee jumping. I’ve watched videos of people doing it, and I always think, “Why the hell would someone want to do that?” I have this fear that the bungee is going to snap or get wrapped around the jumper’s neck. I know those things rarely happen, but bungee jumping […]

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Who Uses Online Dating 7 Important Statistics

Approximately 8,000 dating sites exist on the web, and about 49 million people have used a dating site or app. Who are these people, though? What are their goals, personality traits, backgrounds, cultures, and lifestyles? We’ll answer those questions and more in this article. Here are seven interesting facts about online dating users. 1. Age: […]

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Why Some People Choose To Remain Single

Everyone wants and desires love in their lives. It’s natural and part of what makes us all human – edgy feelings when you connect with another, making your heart skip in those crazy, irresistible beats. However, for some it doesn’t mean running to the jewelers, racing inside a church or shopping for furniture together at […]

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